Monday, June 20, 2005

Shipping Out

I'm packing up and getting ready to shove off, ship out, leave the hot, humid, rainy weather of Florida and head up to NJ. As for the weather, I'm ready to leave it behind. The only problem with leaving Florida is leaving my dear husband. OK, it's only for four weeks - he's heading north in late July, but still... I am so used to having him close by. Who will listen to my endless chatter and never mind? Who will help me decide which shoes to wear with my outfit? Who will keep track of whether I took my vitamins today? Who will bring me coffee if I linger in bed? Who will pray with me at day's end? Or reach for my hand as I sit in church? Give me a hug just because I look like I can use one? Who will notice I can use a hug? Who will say, "You're beautiful" to me? I am going to miss him!!!

And he will miss me too.

We are blessed beyond measure to feel as we do about each other after all these years and all the "stuff" life can throw at a marriage. I am thankful for the commitment my husband has to God and me. He lives out Ephesians 5:25-31 every day. "Husbands, go all out for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church, a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ's love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. Ant that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They're really doing themselves a favor- since they're already "one" in marriage". The Message

Thank you, dear husband, for loving me enough to die for me. I know you have died to yourself countless times already. Thank you, dear husband, for giving sacrificially (not to mention all the shoes you let me buy!). You set me free to be the best I can be through your support and encouragement. I am amazed at the patience you demonstrate - whew! How do you do it?
I love you with all my heart.

7 Comments:

Blogger Laney said...

Which husband are you talking about?? My father?? Just kidding, :-)

As for the question of who will help you pick out shoes, I can't believe you even have to ask! Who is the accessory girl? ME!!! Laurie can get you coffee in bed, he-he!

See you tonight!

June 21, 2005 8:48 AM  
Blogger J-Lynn said...

Although I know nothing can replace your husband, I have a feeling your sweet daughters will be holding your hand in church and hugging you when you need it. I followed a link from Laney aka the plant killer's blog. It sounds like you have a wonderful family and life. :-)

June 21, 2005 3:37 PM  
Blogger Oklahoma Girl said...

You are truly blessed with such a wonderful man! What a treasure to have this kind of a relationship. Long-term marriages are so rare these days in our society. I envy you!! May God continue to bless your union & give you many more years together. Have a safe trip!!
Namaste`

June 21, 2005 5:02 PM  
Blogger CMB said...

How cute! I know your girls are so looking forward to your visit. I am sure they will fill the void. Congrats on such a wonderful marraige!

June 21, 2005 9:31 PM  
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June 25, 2005 9:42 PM  
Blogger Patrick Laffey said...

I clicked on the comment button but I am left speechless. I am humbled at the words and feelings you have for me, even after all these years. I can only give the credit to God. It is also amazing that the way I feel right now is the name of my blog.
I love you

Patrick

I went to publish this comment and the time on your blog says 6:40 PM
This is another reason I love my blond Jersey Girl. You're my fun and joy.

June 25, 2005 10:48 PM  
Blogger Dy said...

Hello! I've come from Laney's blog to visit, and just wanted to say that ten years into our marriage, Zorak and I look at other couples who have kept that devotion going - we hold hands and smile. It means so much to have that example, to see that when you believe and serve, it works. Thanks. ;-)

Kiss those grandbabies!
~Dy

June 29, 2005 11:39 PM  

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